[imported_Pande]

For Pande, I see caring about something and worrying about its appearance as two different things. As an example, say you have a kid... obviously you are going to worry about everything they do, everything, but are you really going to care about what others think about your child or what your child wants to wear regardless of how idiotic it may be? (referring to a youngin) See some parents would not care as long as the child is happy and some would make them wear something suitable, regardless of what the child wants. This may be a horible example but I just wanted to explain my outlook on how those two things, caring about something and how people perceive that something, are different. Oh and as for the whole flaming with proper grammar and everything... I think it would be quite funny and challenging to watch or try to flame people but remain sophisticated.

yup i see where you're coming from hopefully you can see i care about both aspects for this shard.


and hate, you are over analyzing the "smoke a blunt" comment it was only made to get people to lighten up however they do it, wether its smoking a blunt or reading the comics/funny pages before coming on the forums.