[imported_Bella Harpell]

or me and my buddies would kick that guy's ass for trying to start something. believe me, it's almost happened before

That's exactly what I'm talking about though, players regulating players is alright and always adds to make a better atmosphere. I can't really tell by your comment but if you ment you and your buddies were GMs and coming down to kick his ass for talking shit then all you were doing in the long run was killing off any kind of atmosphere that existed during the situation by adding somthing to the picture that the players involved have no control over.

Wheres the fun in that?